Tuesday, 31 May 2011

A journey of love from heart to head

Hello friends,

What is love? Is it when you see your secret boy of admiration riding a bike, or when you see a movie and start seeing the heroic qualities of the reel hero all of a sudden in a boy next door;or is it when u r caught accidentally in an exchange of sight with your senior at school;or is it comforting a heart broken lover hoping to join his heart with yours; or is it that when you r busy looking for true love, u forget that someone is searching for you too as his love : who is this boy? Well a non existent for you : why so ? Well,because he doesn't have a bike, no fashion statement, no heroic qualities which you look for in ur pursuit of finding love.
But in this pursuit of exploring  love, you build up castles in dream , marriages in heaven and all of a sudden all the romantic melodies seems to be written just for you and what not... just everything around you seems like a beautiful dream except for occasional realities like your exams n results and parents scolding and yes, meeting the boy in whom u see reality not your dreams: well, in this pursuit, one"s heart is often broken , u feel let down, but Ghosh!!! It's love : can happen anytime anywhere but it's in between this anywhere and anytime and broken dreams you find someone always following you: in happiness or in sadness always a part of your real life : though not significant for you but still a part: is this love???
It is at this time that head takes over heart
and makes it clear to you that true love may not sound jingles in your ears or build up castles for you but it is real : It accepts the way you are in real not as the one in dreams: the one simple love that kept knocking at your heart while you were buzy knocking others.Indeed,love happens in reality and definitely with those people who are not like what you want them to be but who accept you as in your real self:and that's my dear friends true love :)

Monday, 30 May 2011

final analysis

Hello friends ,
we come across many people some good some bad ,all of us know dealing with the good ones, but do we really know how to deal with the bad ones and even if we know the right way to deal with them do we practice it ? lets see:
A few people may seem to be self centered behave illogically or unreasonably and in an ill mannered way : we need to ignore them or forgive them :If you are kind,people think you are selfish or have some motive : still dont leave your kindness:You may be honest and frank, people may be rude to you & hate you too :still be honest:
what you be building for years may be destroyed by someone in a day : build anyway:the good we do today, will be forgotten tommorow : do good anyway.A few of you may disagree with me , I know its sometimes difficult for me too, but then ,I remember about the FINAL ANALYSIS : YOU SEE FRIENDS, ITS THE FINAL ANALYSIS BETWEEN YOU AND GOD.IT WAS NEVER BETWEEN YOU AND THEM(the people around you) ANYWAYS :)

Sunday, 29 May 2011

Are yo u living life or designing life ???

Hello friends ,

" We all have two choices; we can make a living or we can design a life."
my husband does the living and I the DESIGNING :)

I chose not to be a part of the RAT RACE which everyone is competing for , I dont say they are wrong because some are doing for earning a living and their better halves for fulfilling the demands of their family which is endless.I too was  a part of a race , but it was a race of my choice - a race of pleasure and contenment - I was a  teacher not educating for money but changing the lives of those who were needy, but now as I am married I chose to find the pleasure and contentment in my married life by becoming a homemaker.Though, it was my choice to be at home in the current setting ,where every woman is competing with men in all fields,I felt shy to be vocal about my status in public, but knowing the transient nature of our lives, I realized  that why should i shy away from my own choice and I collected the courage to be proud of my choice and this I got from looking around me: In the hustle and bustles of life , we ignore the greenery of trees,the chirping of birds,relaxing under a tree and feeling the rejuvenating breeze from sea shore,caressing and feeling nature and cherishing and cementing the bond with near and dear ones.
Here, I am today after 2 years of my marriage : a proud homemaker a designer of life : a choice I chose for :)

Gender Equality

Woman was taken out of man not out of his head to top him, nor out of his feet to be trampled underfoot; but out of his side to be equal to him, under his arm to be protected, and near his heart to be loved

Thoughts on Adam & Eve

Men are simple things. They can survive a whole weekend with only three things: beer, boxer shorts and batteries for the remote control.
women are expensive things : they can survive a whole weekend with only 3 things :
Gossip,men's purse and and loads of shopping